Patrick C. Costa Remembered at 59 as Painted Post Family and Friends Hold Close a Life Filled With Laughter

 Patrick C. Costa, affectionately known as Pat, is being remembered in Painted Post, New York, after his death on August 23, 2026, at age 59. Born October 25, 1966, Pat leaves behind a family and friends who knew him for his laughter, energy, and unmistakable personality. His life was filled with family connections, friendships, work, travel, sports, and everyday interests that brought him happiness. For those closest to him, those memories will remain an important part of his legacy.

A graduate of Bath Haverling’s Class of 1984, Pat carried his love of sports throughout his life. Bowling became one of his greatest passions, and he achieved several perfect 300 games. He also traveled across multiple states for tournaments with lifelong friends, creating stories remembered long after the games ended. Baseball was another lasting interest, connecting him to memories from high school and adulthood.

Pat’s working life also reflected a willingness to build his own path. He spent time working at his grandparents’ Steuben Bowl before establishing a longtime career as an electrician. His work took him across the United States, where he worked with contractors on motel construction projects. The work brought travel and new experiences while allowing him to develop valuable skills. His professional journey reflected the independence and determination that helped define him.

Yet family remained at the center of Pat’s world. He shared a meaningful bond with his daughter Meghan and treasured time with his granddaughter Ileigh. He is also survived by grandchildren Ethan and Garrett, his parents Mary and Joseph Costa of Painted Post, brothers Michael and Joseph, Joseph’s wife Elizabeth, and nieces Theresa, Linden, and Blair. Those relationships will continue carrying his memory through future generations and family gatherings. His role as a father and grandfather gave him especially meaningful reasons to remain close to those he loved.

Those who knew Pat will also remember the personality that made him distinctive. His infectious laugh, playful spirit, and habit of giving people unique nicknames became part of the family’s shared language. These details preserve the everyday character of a person rather than simply recording dates and accomplishments. His family will continue telling stories about his humor, friendships, travels, and the moments when his personality brightened an ordinary day. They are the details that make a remembrance feel personal.

Beyond bowling and baseball, Pat found enjoyment in the outdoors and in simple activities close to home. Gardening gave him another way to spend time with nature, and gave him time to enjoy nature. His family also finds comfort in the belief that he is reunited with his best friend, Bobby “Bub,” whom he deeply missed. That connection adds another dimension to Pat’s memories and offers comfort as relatives adjust to his absence.

Pat’s funeral services will be held privately for family and close friends, giving those nearest to him an opportunity to gather, remember, and support one another. At 59, he leaves a story shaped by family, friendship, work, sports, travel, humor, and personal moments. His legacy may be found in people who can still hear his laugh, remember his nicknames, and tell stories about their years together. In Painted Post, those memories will keep his presence alive for years. His family and friends will carry those stories forward, keeping his spirit present in the years ahead.